Boxer
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That's up to you. |
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subbu
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death is common in the human, life. Try to change environment and mingle with some group foe sometime. |
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ADMIRAL
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You will have to come out of this phase,try to remember her advises to you & try to follow it.Let be clear all of us who are born will have to die one day,It is the law of nature.Admiral V K Singh |
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Seeker
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Life has its ups & down . Time is a great leveller. We feel happy today & sad tomorrow. Sad today & happy tomorrow. That is life. Some pain can never leave us but the intensity goes down. |
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Jackie
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Yes you will feel better, it just takes time. You're always going to be sad and miss her very much, but try not to dwell on all the sad and hurtful things, remember good and happy things whenever you're feeling down about it. It is hard not having support and I find it hard to talk to anyone about such a loss if they have not experienced something similar. They might just not understand and probably don't know what to say to you about your loss. Since it happened so recently it's still going to be hard on you, but just know it will be okay. Give it time. |
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Sabrina
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Your mom is with you. She's in your heart and she will live as long as you want to make her live. Your mom would not want you to be upset. Make her happy and proud. She wants her girl to be strong. Smile at yourself in the mirror and at other people who will reflect just as well as a mirror. Tell people you WANT to talk. I'm sure they will understand. Being upset will just upset her memory and tire you out. You've got a life ahead of you and your mother wished you to have a good future. You have to fulfill her wish. You CAN talk to her. Write her a letter, talk to wherever you believe she is. Go to a psychologist if you think it will help. You can give other people inspiration and strength! Believe in yourself and your mom. Do things that make you happy, and keep yourself busy. Give a dog or a cat a chance, they are brilliant listeners and are very caring. The only friend or family I could cry to was my kitty, and she let me soak her belly in tears for hours. Although I would suggest a dog because they can keep you busy more. If you can't adopt one, why not go for a hamster or a fish? I don't know if it will help but listen to Pachalbel's Canon in D major. It always gives me strength. If you want to be happy, you can be! And I believe in you! |
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lori
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Hi, I feel so very bad for you. It is hard to lose the people we love. I lost my mom 2 yrs ago, but I am very fortunate, in that I had her for many years, and she lived a long life- 96 yrs. I am fortunate also that I am a Christian, and my best friend, and the person who loves me the most is God. I talk to him a lot, because I know he loves me so very much. God loves you so very much too. He is there for you 24/7, and you can talk to him about anything and everything, since he actually knows you so very well and knows everything about you--and so he is just waiting for you to spend time with him. He will give you his strength, and peace and love. And, yes, you will feel better. |
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Chris
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Well... to tell you the truth I don't really know exactly what your going through but whenever I feel depressed or just don't see the point in life I just remind my self of my curiosity of what kind of life I'm going to have in the future. Just put on a smiling face in front of your friends and they will unconsciously make you feel better. Moving on is the best thing you can do right now even though you completely don't want to move on. Trust me you'll find someone who can give you comfort like your mum did. |
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blake g
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i know how you feel i lost three of my grandparents to cancer and each of there deaths hurt me so much. so when my mom got diagnose i was scared. but she is still with us but not for much longer. she told me that when she dies that she wants me to keep living life how i am and she said, to me that to remember of all the good times we had together and that she will always love me and we will meet again in heaven. it seems to me you loved her very much and you don't want to let her go but you know in your heart that she want you to live your life and bee happy. it will hurt for a long time but you will learn to deal with it. but there will always be a place in your heart for your mom. but you will find that life is better when you let go of her death. just remember that she loves you and always will |
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Savita Patel
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Do u think u lost ur mom,"NO"..till the time u keep thinking that u lost her.Sometimes ur very happy,u dressed so well,sudden glow on ur face,inbox is full of mails or u nearly avoided a bad accident. All such things happening to u bcoz ur mom with other good spirits is around. U wud be thinking that it is too filmy to believe but this is true, still if u dont bliv come to India i can show in real, happened with me. What is Divine Aura around you??There are many ppl around those are in worst condition than yours.
My friend who lost her father,her mom is very old and fat,she has two younger sisters. Her father was the only earning parent. Recently her bf dumped her.She was thinking that her bf will take care of her family and take her father's place.NOw the condition is she wanna die but cant, getting a job is important than dying. We can help such ppl, we can talk to our friends to get her a job.
As far as friends concern in ur case, here I am. i can talk to u for hours.
u can email me:[email protected] yes u will definitely feel better, time heals worst to worst wounds... |
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DGS
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Everyone on earth pass through such incidents. Particularly at some time or other when they become old one is bound to lose ones parents. Sadness will be there and slowly our minds pushes it to oblivion and we get over the feelings and return to normal. Of course, we do think of them and the pleasant memories about them for ever. |
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Tarkarri
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I lost my mother to cancer 25 years ago.
It is normal to be sad and lonely.
We all need to find our own way to deal with grief. Seeing a councellor is often a good start.
It does get easier with time, but there are times I still miss mine! |
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K
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It is completely normal to feel the way you are feeling and it's great that you are going for counceling.
To search for support groups in your area it is a good idea to look online. Apart form support groups in your area, there are heaps of websites and forums that are dedicated to supporting people who have lost a loved one to cancer.
Im not sure of your age, but one site that supports young people who have been affected by cancer is Now What: http://www.nowwhat.org.au/
Young people share their own experiences, there is information on grief, loss and heaps of other stuff. May be something you would find helpful.
All the best and I hope you found my post useful. |
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WOW!
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I feel sorry for you!
You need to star to talk with kids under the age of 7 when theire parents around!
And also you need to serve some deprived elderly people at least with a healthy smile.
you should find some one(female) who just have the same problem for friendship relation.
Try to drink enough pomegranate juice if you are not Allergy to it.
May God help you and bless you in matter of hours!
I'm going to pray for you and ask God to makes you happy and healthy for the rest of your life.
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ChemoAngel
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Try the Hospital. They always have Bereavement support group meetings there. |
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Tommy
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All I can tell you is you never get over it you only learn to cope with it and I sometimes find it soothing to write a letter to A lost loved one and then burn it just to get all my thoughts and feelings out and also to remember they are always with me for as long as I dont ever forget them they are in my thoughts, heart and dreams so the only true way that i have found is to live and show the world what your loved one ment to you by living the best life and never forgetting any moment that you two shared |
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