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 Is it cancer please help ?
have a pea sized lump in the back of my throat. It doesent hurt but it really irritates me. I am 13 years old and went to the doctor today with my mum as i have been having some problems with my ears-...


 my 11 year old daughter with cancer gets picked on bad! help!?
She's 11. What do i do? She use to be very very popular til she got cancer. Kids are hateful when she lost her hair she has to wear a beanie or a bandanna on her head. One day some kid took her ...


 What is the first word that comes to mind when you think of cancer?
I'm starting a t-shirt line and for one of the designs im putting a bunch of words on the shirt. Whats the first word that comes to mind when you think of ...


 has the cure for cancer been found?
cause i searched it on google it was found i just came here to to make ...


 cancer question??
can u get cancer if fire flashes at u?...


 why don't they reduce the chemicals in cigaretes?
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 What problems do you face when returning to ‘normal’ life after cancer treatment?
Hearing from you via Yahoo! Answers helps us to gather information about the types of support you need charities like us to offer. For example, people tell us the impact of a cancer diagnosis doesn�...


 i have cancer given few days to live its termanal pleas help im blue?
ok heres the strory aboute a guy that lives in the real world no time to cry because nobody will listen they all dont care if ill die they just wont listen to understand that blue i am they rather i ...


 Genetic testing: Could this tell if I'll get breast cancer in the future?
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 how long can you live with type 4 lung cacer?
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 Can eating ice cause cancer of the throat?
please answer my ...


 How soon after wife's chemo can a guy expect to get some luvin?
Been 9 months since I got any... she keeps teling me how wonderful and supportive I am, but she finished chemo and radiation over a month ago, and I'm one frustrated guy... I don't want to ...


 Jealousy of a family member with cancer?
DON'T take this the wrong way, no way do I WANT cancer, And I love my sister and would give anything for her A.L.L. Leukemia to go away..But I guess I'm jealous of her for the attention. L...


 Hi have never smoked in my life?
Im 27 and have never smoked until once I was on holiday with family and I tried one once and it made me sick and I have never had one since will that one kill me?...


 do mood rings give you cancer?
i have this cool mood ring that i wear on my thumb and one of my no it all friends say that it give you cancer is that true?...


 have you ever lost someone you love due to cancer?
i just found out that one of my family members has cancer. im scared. have any of you dealt with this? what was it like?...


 Can I get cancer from eating cancer?
Can I get cancer from eating a tumour from a chicken or a vegetable? T...


 Is Farrah Fawcett's death insignificant because we have a black man for Pres.? Are white women the true?
minority now? All you are hearing about is Michael Jackson's death. She fought a good fight for the last couple of years and is probably 100 times courageous as the self induced death of Jacko!...


 Why would a man shave his head and tell everyone he has cancer and the baldness is due to chemo???
I'm sure he has some mental problems, but gee, this is dumb....


 hey doctor is it possible for a non smoker to get cancer?
As all cancer is caused by smoking i was just wondering if its really possible for a non smoker to get cancer?...



bex
I lost my mum 4 months ago to lung cancer will i ever feel happy again?
I feel so sad and very lonely. I am living in ireland, but from england. I find that my partners friends and family do not want to talk to me about my loss. It makes it difficult for me to cope on a daily basis. I have friends and family at home I can talk to but just have no support here.
All i want is to talk to my mum but i can't now, I just can't bear it. I have been for counceling which helps alot but just want to make friends who know what i am going threw.
I can't find any groups in my area for support, will i ever feel better?
                      








Boxer
That's up to you.


subbu
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death is common in the human, life. Try to change environment and mingle with some group foe sometime.


ADMIRAL
You will have to come out of this phase,try to remember her advises to you & try to follow it.Let be clear all of us who are born will have to die one day,It is the law of nature.Admiral V K Singh


Seeker
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Life has its ups & down . Time is a great leveller. We feel happy today & sad tomorrow. Sad today & happy tomorrow. That is life. Some pain can never leave us but the intensity goes down.


Jackie
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Yes you will feel better, it just takes time. You're always going to be sad and miss her very much, but try not to dwell on all the sad and hurtful things, remember good and happy things whenever you're feeling down about it. It is hard not having support and I find it hard to talk to anyone about such a loss if they have not experienced something similar. They might just not understand and probably don't know what to say to you about your loss. Since it happened so recently it's still going to be hard on you, but just know it will be okay. Give it time.


Sabrina
Your mom is with you. She's in your heart and she will live as long as you want to make her live. Your mom would not want you to be upset. Make her happy and proud. She wants her girl to be strong. Smile at yourself in the mirror and at other people who will reflect just as well as a mirror. Tell people you WANT to talk. I'm sure they will understand. Being upset will just upset her memory and tire you out. You've got a life ahead of you and your mother wished you to have a good future. You have to fulfill her wish. You CAN talk to her. Write her a letter, talk to wherever you believe she is. Go to a psychologist if you think it will help. You can give other people inspiration and strength! Believe in yourself and your mom. Do things that make you happy, and keep yourself busy. Give a dog or a cat a chance, they are brilliant listeners and are very caring. The only friend or family I could cry to was my kitty, and she let me soak her belly in tears for hours. Although I would suggest a dog because they can keep you busy more. If you can't adopt one, why not go for a hamster or a fish? I don't know if it will help but listen to Pachalbel's Canon in D major. It always gives me strength. If you want to be happy, you can be! And I believe in you!


lori
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Hi, I feel so very bad for you. It is hard to lose the people we love. I lost my mom 2 yrs ago, but I am very fortunate, in that I had her for many years, and she lived a long life- 96 yrs. I am fortunate also that I am a Christian, and my best friend, and the person who loves me the most is God. I talk to him a lot, because I know he loves me so very much. God loves you so very much too. He is there for you 24/7, and you can talk to him about anything and everything, since he actually knows you so very well and knows everything about you--and so he is just waiting for you to spend time with him. He will give you his strength, and peace and love. And, yes, you will feel better.


Chris
Well... to tell you the truth I don't really know exactly what your going through but whenever I feel depressed or just don't see the point in life I just remind my self of my curiosity of what kind of life I'm going to have in the future. Just put on a smiling face in front of your friends and they will unconsciously make you feel better. Moving on is the best thing you can do right now even though you completely don't want to move on. Trust me you'll find someone who can give you comfort like your mum did.


blake g
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i know how you feel i lost three of my grandparents to cancer and each of there deaths hurt me so much. so when my mom got diagnose i was scared. but she is still with us but not for much longer. she told me that when she dies that she wants me to keep living life how i am and she said, to me that to remember of all the good times we had together and that she will always love me and we will meet again in heaven. it seems to me you loved her very much and you don't want to let her go but you know in your heart that she want you to live your life and bee happy. it will hurt for a long time but you will learn to deal with it. but there will always be a place in your heart for your mom. but you will find that life is better when you let go of her death. just remember that she loves you and always will


Savita Patel
Do u think u lost ur mom,"NO"..till the time u keep thinking that u lost her.Sometimes ur very happy,u dressed so well,sudden glow on ur face,inbox is full of mails or u nearly avoided a bad accident. All such things happening to u bcoz ur mom with other good spirits is around. U wud be thinking that it is too filmy to believe but this is true, still if u dont bliv come to India i can show in real, happened with me. What is Divine Aura around you??There are many ppl around those are in worst condition than yours.
My friend who lost her father,her mom is very old and fat,she has two younger sisters. Her father was the only earning parent. Recently her bf dumped her.She was thinking that her bf will take care of her family and take her father's place.NOw the condition is she wanna die but cant, getting a job is important than dying. We can help such ppl, we can talk to our friends to get her a job.
As far as friends concern in ur case, here I am. i can talk to u for hours.
u can email me:[email protected] yes u will definitely feel better, time heals worst to worst wounds...


DGS
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Everyone on earth pass through such incidents. Particularly at some time or other when they become old one is bound to lose ones parents. Sadness will be there and slowly our minds pushes it to oblivion and we get over the feelings and return to normal. Of course, we do think of them and the pleasant memories about them for ever.


Tarkarri
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I lost my mother to cancer 25 years ago.

It is normal to be sad and lonely.

We all need to find our own way to deal with grief. Seeing a councellor is often a good start.

It does get easier with time, but there are times I still miss mine!


K
It is completely normal to feel the way you are feeling and it's great that you are going for counceling.

To search for support groups in your area it is a good idea to look online. Apart form support groups in your area, there are heaps of websites and forums that are dedicated to supporting people who have lost a loved one to cancer.

Im not sure of your age, but one site that supports young people who have been affected by cancer is Now What: http://www.nowwhat.org.au/
Young people share their own experiences, there is information on grief, loss and heaps of other stuff. May be something you would find helpful.

All the best and I hope you found my post useful.


WOW!
I feel sorry for you!
You need to star to talk with kids under the age of 7 when theire parents around!
And also you need to serve some deprived elderly people at least with a healthy smile.
you should find some one(female) who just have the same problem for friendship relation.
Try to drink enough pomegranate juice if you are not Allergy to it.
May God help you and bless you in matter of hours!
I'm going to pray for you and ask God to makes you happy and healthy for the rest of your life.


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ChemoAngel
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Try the Hospital. They always have Bereavement support group meetings there.


Tommy
All I can tell you is you never get over it you only learn to cope with it and I sometimes find it soothing to write a letter to A lost loved one and then burn it just to get all my thoughts and feelings out and also to remember they are always with me for as long as I dont ever forget them they are in my thoughts, heart and dreams so the only true way that i have found is to live and show the world what your loved one ment to you by living the best life and never forgetting any moment that you two shared


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