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 What do you do when you have absolutely NO energy?
and a total lack of motivation?i could REALLY use a few ideas.thanks:)
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thanks to everyone so far!i feel i should ...


 Please..OMG...Ive got a BIG problem. Please HELP.?
Any1 who is reading this is a sad mother *******! hahahahaha! Youre all sooo SAD!...


 Yes or no. Should marijuana be legal?
No explanation needed, and writing yes yes yes or no no no does not get extra credit....


 How to cure body odor?
what are the effective ways to control and rid off body odor?...


 Marijuana?????
your thoughts?

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 How can i stop?
I have a habit of biting my nails a lot!
and i want to stop
but how?...


 Umm at school im being mentally bullied by a girl constantly and the principle wont do anythin what do i do?
my principle buys into her stories and this girl has turned my friends against me and alieinated me completely plus shes got my ex best friend in my face about to hit me and when she gets in my face ...


 How to avoid a hangover?
its my birthday and I plan to head to the pub soon, the problem is after every birthday I end up with a hangover, people always buy me drinks to celebrate this occasion?? what is the best way to ...


 GIRLS ONLY!If you're not comfortable with puberty, don't look at this...don't answer... what's wrong with me?
Ok I've been having my period and usually it only lasts 3 days but now it's almost 5 or 6 days, this month. What in the world is wrong with me?!?!?!?!?!?!...


 Should fat Women wear bikini's?
why do they stroll about with all that fat bulging out making everyone feel sick?
surely there is alternative swim wear for big momma's?...


 What can i do to get my teeth clean without a toothbrush?
i'm a broke college student so i have been using things until they fall apart to avoid spending money!! i just realized my toothbrush is beyond gross and there's no way i'm putting ...


 Do you prefer a shower or a bath?
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 Will I be okay?
This morning I took a Lipton tea bag and rolled it in tissue and smoked it a little I put it out fast before anyone woke up. Now after school I took another Lipton tea bag and rolled it in a napkin ...


 I think my doctor behaved inappropriately...?
I had a first appt with an endocrinologist today, regarding a thyroid problem. When the doctor came in for the exam, he did the usual routine, listining to my heart and lungs, and examining the ...


 Is age 30 still young/youngish?
30s seems like a weird age where people around 18 think it's kind of old but people 40+ think it's young.They say 18-34 is young adult but I don't know....


 How can I get a terminal illness?
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 Why do people start smoking?
This isnt "Why wont people quit" but why start in the first place???
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 Ever done drugs?
How was the experience? And did you find any shorterm effects to your health?...


 How would you ask your dad to stop smoking?
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 Sleeping style question?
i like to sleep with my stomach facing down, some studies say this aint good for health. but i feel it is more comfortable than facing upward .wat do u think and whats ur style of sleep?...



libertydrive99403
HELP Please!!!! Suicidal thoughts?
Help Please ,
I am a 30 yr old woman with Multiple Scoleosis . I am having suicidal thoughts I feel very alone , With my disease at the moment I cant walk , cant drive I cant even play with my kids , or wipe my own backside with out help , My husband left me last year when I got really sick , and my boyfriend that I was trulely in love with passed away on jan 28th 2007 I feel like I have no one to lean on I sit here alone my daughter is at her grandfathers place since I am incapable of taking care of her . I know that when one commits suicide they dont go to heaven but I dont want to feel so alone , and so helpless I dont go anywhere I dont do anything I dont have any friends , counselors just dont listen I am on meds for depression it doesnt help I dont know what to do please help me and please for my sake no rude comments please
ty
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ty all for your comments in just want to say that I have truley talked to my doctors I have had 9 doctors with in the past 6 yrs and the one right now says to me deal with it I tell her im in pain she says deal with it , Its so Irritating when no one will listen to you and I live in not a big town and to come up with a doctor here is liking pulling teeth with out novacaine and I cant drive so it s not like I can go to a different town , I have tried with doctors nourologists , counselors , the MS society , It feels like I am just another name on there list that brings in a few dollars if it doesnt affect them then they dont care is how I feel sorry I am rambling but just had to get that out
                     




jason g
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1800 fight-ms. my roommates mom has ms. i'm truly sorry. i feel for you. hope this helps at least a little bit.


livis
Only think about ur kids. Who will care about them after u r gone? Who will love them more then u do? How will they feel growing up without their mother? without ur love and ur sweet words. If u want to do something like that because u feel bad for the moment,,,, at least think for ur kids, they love u no matter in what situation u are, they will always have someone to call "mum", someone who will always listen to them and always try to be there for them when they grow up. I wish u good luck, u need it a lot. Its easy to take ur life,,, but just think of the consenquences that ur death will cause on the people u love and love u back......


Sarah S
First of All, you said it all when you said you have kids! They need you reguardless of what your medical state. 2nd, Share your tallents, and your strength. You may not be able to walk etc...however, you still have many tallents and a heart to share. Being strong in the face of your disability could very well help someone else suffering from the same condition. God bless.........


Mrs Avatard
I understand how difficult is is living with a chronic illness.

Stay strong in your heart & please know that you are loved more than you could ever know. Take it one hour or even one minute at a time & you will get through this :-)

Pls feel free to e-mail me any time if you need to talk. I will pray for you & send you some of my strength.


Christian person
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Hi. I used to be an aged carer and I assisted with a couple of people who had MS.

Some of the symptoms that I've just looked up on Wikipedia.org can be explained by other diagnoses as well. Abnormal muscle spasms or difficulty moving can also be explained by panic attacks. Panic attacks are generally triggered after a period of high stress levels by a very small amount of light, noise or crowds. Symptoms are similar to, if not the same as, hypnosis - watery eyes, fluttery eyelids, feeling heavy and grounded to the floor or chair, difficulty moving or feeling arms or legs, time distortion (time seems to be going more slowly). According to Robert Baker, hypnosis is socially induced by means of compliance, relaxation and suggestibility. Criminals tend to tell other people to stress less, especially about their own activities. In regards to your doctors, it really sounds a bit insensitive to use slogans to deal with your condition. I don't agree with slogans like "move on" or "just relax." They don't mean much and generally signal a lack of understanding by the one who says them.

Difficulty swallowing can be related to emotional causes. I've had similar symptoms myself. Try praying before eating every single time. Acts 27:33 Just before dawn Paul urged them all to eat. "For the last fourteen days," he said, "you have been in constant suspense and have gone without food—you haven't eaten anything. 34 Now I urge you to take some food. You need it to survive. Not one of you will lose a single hair from his head." 35 After he said this, he took some bread and gave thanks to God in front of them all. Then he broke it and began to eat. 36 They were all encouraged and ate some food themselves. 37 Altogether there were 276 of us on board. 38 When they had eaten as much as they wanted, they lightened the ship by throwing the grain into the sea.

Besides that, doctors have a tendency to pathologise everyday behaviour. Pathologisation comes from the word "pathos." What kind of "nice" are your doctors? If it's "understanding," that's not nice. That's more like love-bombing. Cults do it. It just means trying to gain territory using you as one more number. There is no such thing as anybody else understanding what it's like for somebody else. Doctors are the new shamans. They run in families and there's a chance that they're employed by people you don't want to know.

Regarding individuality, the Bible says, in Proverbs 14:10 -
"Each heart knows its own bitterness, and no one else can share its joy."

Mythology began when homo sapiens became homo necans, man the killer. It essentially deals with explaining away the kind of symptoms that people get if they have a guilty conscience, specifically because of feeling implicated in murder. Democracy, for example, is based on the myth of the social contract. You give up some freedoms in exchange for protection of your rights. King Arthur's sword was alleged housed in stone. It seems more likely to me that he had right arm catalepsy as a result of hypnosis (not a dignified way for a King to behave; it means suppressing your anger so that you can report it on to somebody else for action instead of knowing what to do in the moment). Therefore, the story becomes that the sword was magic and it was in stone. If you are being told to accept rubbish like that as an explanation for any phenomena around you, read a good encyclopedia of mythology maybe, just to see how much of it has gone on through the ages. You are in good company!

If you're going to beat this, you need to be self-reliant (with prayer). That is the best I can recommend. 1 Corinthians 3:16, 17 says: "Don't you know that you yourselves are God's temple and that God's Spirit dwells in your midst? If anyone destroys God's temple, God will destroy that person; for God's temple is sacred, and you together are that temple."

Also remember, "Do not put your trust in nobles, nor in the son of earthling man, to whom no salvation belongs. His spirit goes out, he goes back to his ground; in that day his thoughts do perish."—Psalm 146:3, 4.


mattylakeydog
you should call a suicide hotline right now,get of the internet and call them,ok.They are experts and know what they are talking about.good luck.


PW
I'll pray for you. It seems like you have had a rough time lately. Im sorry to hear about your relationship situations. First off commiting suicide does not ban you from heaven if you are a true believer. Sometimes things go wrong in peoples heads and they cant handle their situation. Once you are God's you are always Gods. This fact however does not make suicide a good idea. Your daughter depends on you. I would seek professional help. If the meds for depression are not helping talk to your doctor about trying something else. Suicide is never an answer. There are people that care about you out there Im sure. I care about you and i'll be praying for you.


Miss J
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I would seriouslu see a counselor! i know you had mentioned that counselors dont listen but maybe you didnt see a good counselor. Seriously for your kids sake try to be happy and live one day at a time. But I would definitely get help. This really isnt the best place to get help. Good luck.


kwazeeme
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Libertydrive,
This is your friend Tawna. I can only offer you this prayer and I will also have others pray for you.
Dear, Lord, please comfort Libertydrive tonight. Let her feel Your presence and comfort her. Let her know You're there and give her strength in her faith. Please remove this burden she carries and her pain. This is your child, Lord, show her your power and remove the ugly hurt she has. She has seen and been through so much already, Lord comfort her and release her pain. In Jesus' name. Amen.


Satan's NIGHTMARE
Father God, you see my tears as I read this. I lift her up to you and I am asking you God to touch not only her physical body but her mind. You know exactly what she is going though and you alone can heal her emotionally as well as physically. Father your word says when Jesus took those stripes upon his back it paid for her healing, now God I stand on your word and claim these two healings . Satan I command you to flee, you and the spirits of depression, suicide, deception, lonlyness, infirmity, and all others, I command you to flee in Jesus Name and by the power of His blood. Father God wrap your loving arms around her right now and comfort her. Show her who she is in you, and allow her to feel as if she matters, because she does matter a whole lot more then any of us know. Your word says that whenever one of your children hurt we all do, and Father I know it is so in this case because I am in tears for her as I pray and write this. God please touch her and either heal her or take her home very very soon, whatever your will be. I ask these things in Jesus wonderful glorious name, Amen.

Now I realise this is hard to do sometimes, but begin to thank God for your healing and that you can lean on Him at any time. You can scream at Him, tell Him all that you are feeling and yes you can even cuss at Him if you need to. God knows exactly what you are going through, HE is right there beside you. HE wants you to depend on Him for you support and comfort. HE wants you to talk to Him durring those lonely times. HE is never to busy or to far away, HE is always right there with you and waiting to hear from you. HE also wants to talk with you, if you will listen with your heart you will hear a still small voice, that is God and HE wants to talk to you all the time. Please listen and allow God to be your best friend and healer.
Kwazeeme sent me two emails and told me about you, so you obviously have a great friend in her. If I were you I would give Tawna the 10 points for contacting so many of us, and showing her love for you in a very tangible way.

Pastor Bill


Shalom
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we all feel alone at times and I see that u r having a very bad time and you feel there is nothing worth living for. but I say there are tons of things worth living for: your children, all the ones who love you, and all the ones you love, for all the simple pleasures there are in life. you could still do many things with your life. and live for God. that is the most important thing. to live for God. he will help you in your time of troubles. trials make us all stronger. be strong and don't give up! after the trials everything will be better, but you have to wait and be patient. you will be rewarded. I'll be praying for you!


Pamela V
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I know that at times things can become overwhelming. I know that you just want the pain to stop. Not your life, not really. I can truly understand. I have Rheumatoid Arthritis. My fingers look like they are tied in knots! I am in a power chair. I don't drive a car any more. Some days I am in so much pain I feel like crying. I will keep you in my prayers. I can offer you a listening ear. God Bless you.


Minister
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Don't give up. God Loves you, He really does ! He is right there with you, He'll never leave you, or forsake you. I can't imagine how hard it is for you, but I sense your desperation, and I am not trying to give you glib cliches, I just know, and believe that God isn't finished with you, and He's going to help you.
God Bless you, I am Praying for you !
Be Blessed in Christ Jesus !
Outraged


Zaki M
i agree with what others have already mentioned...you DO have people that care about you! Committing suicide will end your life but the pain and sadness you start for the people that love you will just begin and last forever with them. The VT massacre hit very close to home (my best friend was very close to being killed) and I feel so sad for everyone that was hurt or killed. But way more people were affected than just those wounded or killed because everyone that cared about them was affected (their friends, families, and even people that they didn't even know were saddened by this).

Personally I think everyone at least thinks of suicide for a moment, but don't do it! It doesn't solve anything! It only creates more problems and pain. If anyone I knew did this I wouldn't know what to do.


aznangelbaby23
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well, first you should tell someone about it. i guess that's what your doing. i have MS too. i was diagonsed last year and i'm only 19! the thoughts in my head were "well...it's nothign i can do about it, i'll just live life as normal as i can". my doctors all have been very nice and helpful. maybe you can talk to your doc. about it. i know this is very different, but i had needle anxiety so my docs. quickly helped me found a psychatrist and she's very helpful. what i'm thinking, is that if your talking to your doc. about it, they'll help you so your can have someone to talk to. my docs. at UCSF are REALLY helpful and they're VERY nice. i know i'm blabbing, but seriously, they can really help. just talk to them. i hope your feeling better and the best of luck.


Amy E
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You are in my thoughts and prayers! I am here if you need to talk! AMY


jacob s
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from your kids view, mom is like the coolest person in the world. dont let her down


Tha A-Train
Stay strong. Think about getting through this, and the how proud your kids will be of you. Think of them bragging to their friends how tought their mom was and what she went through. Now think about them finding out you killed yourself. What would they say to their friends then?

Please think about the beautiful things in life and
Stay Strong.


GTroy
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stay strong. My aunt has MS and she's recovered. I believe that being positive will improve your health physically. I've seen people grow stronger by having a positive attitude with MS.


John V
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HI DEAR MS FRIEND,

I HAVE MS TOO AND KNOW HOW HARD IT IS TO COPE WITH THIS. I HAVE CALLED THE MS SOCIETY FOR COUNSEL AND HAVE TALKED WITH PEOPLE ON THE PHONE WHO HAVE MS AND UNDERSTAND AND CAN HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT TO DO. THEY ARE AT 1-(800) FIGHTMS.

WHERE ARE YOU? CAN WE E-MAIL EACH OTHER?

MY NAME IS ANN---E-MAIL ME PLEASE AT
[email protected]


JD. the nice guy
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Hello! I'm so sorry to hear about your situation I wish I could find the right words to make you feel any better I know you feel
like nobody cares about you but you know what? you have
people who care specialy your daughter I'm pretty sure she loves you and if you commit suicide what's going to happen to her? think for a moment how is she going to feel knowing that her mother got tired of fighting and took the easy way out and did'nt care about the sadness and sorrow she left behind
we all have a purpose in life I don't know what your purpose in life is but I do know that at the end you will be rewarded
because god loves you and there is always a light at the end
of the tunnel when in desperation tell god with all your heart
to help you carry your burden and you will see that god works
in many unusual and differenr ways.like right now I'm in front of my computer tryng to help a perfect stranger did you know
that it's been almost 6 months that I don't enter this site ? and when I entered the first thing I saw was your add.
I told you that god works in many funny ways and here I'm
talking (typing) to you trying to put a smile on your face
my friend you think nobody cares about you? you are so wrong I CAREEEEEEEEE so please do'nt do anything wrong not even think about it ok? and talk to god he will listen
all the time.
next time you see your daughter give her a big hug and a big
kiss and tell her how much you love her and how proud you
are about her she is the biggest reason to continue fighting
for god bless you my friend
note. I was feeling sad all day long and you made my day (night)


Karla
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Hang in as best you can.
Your daughter needs her mom.

You can do this.


Simply_Katie
OK lady, First off., I am a 21 yr old daughter of a 45 yr old woman with multiple sclerosis. She herself WAS in your exact shoes, my father divorced her, and our whole family WAS NOT at all happy with her at that time. She tried to commit suicide, I was the one to find her passed out on her bed with her empty pill bottles and an empty bottle of vodka next to her bed. Let me tell you, with loved ones around you, that is the most selfish unforgivable act you could EVER commit. I thought i would hate my mother forever, she survived that day, and every time i saw her it was like seeing a ghost, because i had felt that my "mother" had died on that day. But now i have finally found forgiveness towards her, i have come to love myself and all things around me. She is a better person to this day. she lives to live! Do one thing with your life, ENJOY WHAT YOU HAVE! PLEASE PLEASE stop focusing on the negative, believe in the positive! it is there, and it will help you! I don't even know you, but i know you are strong, and you can overcome anything!


[email protected]
You poor dear-- you must feel like everyone's abandoned you... but there are actually people out there who can help you... have you talked with any MS support groups? There are a lot of people in your same situation who can be there for you and who know what you are going through.

To get details on MS support groups, call the National Multiple Sclerosis Society at 800.344.4867 (800-FIGHTMS) to get contact information for your local multiple sclerosis chapter. Your local chapter can provide you with meeting times and names of others with MS. You can also ask members of your medical team for recommendations for support groups. Additionally, the Web is an easy-to-access resource where you can find listings of local groups, online chat rooms, and other sources of multiple sclerosis information.


Kidd!
I read each of the previous responses to your cry for help. I hope that you can FEEL the love that everyone has shown you today. We all want you to pull through this battle you are experiencing.

Please take to heart all the advice that people have given you. Above all, trust that God is using this forum to help you through the advice you have received.

You can thank your friend, Tawna, for sending me to you via a Y! Answers e-mail. She cares for you, and so do I!

I will keep you in my prayers.

Park
"Kidd"

P.S. I couldn't help but notice that no one made any rude comments! People can tell that you are really hurting.


Ladyeagle7
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Liberty.. please think about my answer, it may sound drastic, but I feel you need to do this.
Call the Police and tell them that you are tired of living and are going to commit suicde, because you have M.S. and no-one cares.
They will put you in hospital and there you will be able to talk to a phsciatrist and the other people, (who will help you once you come home again or set it up so you hopefully aren't put in this situation again.
Where's your carer right now, in al of this.
Can you talk to them as well?
Your Life is very important! And you know God Loves you.
I have cared for a special but now passed brother in law who had MS. And filled in for a carer, for a lady who had it too. When my back was ok.
I will hold you up in prayer* and may the God of Love give you His peace that supasses all human understanding.
Write me anytime if you want to.

Psalm 72:4 "HE WILL DEFEND THE AFFLICTED AMONG THE PEOPLE AND SAVE THE CHILDREN OF THE NEEDY; HE WILL CRUSH THE OPPRESSOR."


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