tjdrum7
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Your mom is at least worrying about you, even tho you are old enuff to have a private life of your own . You may think your problem is rare, but what is going on in your house goes on in every home with teen-agers here in the USA .I know teens who wish their mom (mum) would be a little more concerned about their where-abouts and friends . I SWEAR THINGS WILL GET BETTER
P.s - next time your brother hits you, let him know you will " KICK HIM IN THE BALLS " |
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theamericanbombers
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Change your apperance whatever you eat that you know is not good for you stop eating it. Close the door of you room lock it and do push-ups with you feet on the bed and also do crunches start running and also find people who except you and stay with them. Keep a journal close at hand and wright down something good that happend and how you would like to have that feeling again or something bad happening and find out a way to improve it also, pray to God if you mother can not say anything when you brother hurts you ask you True Father for help |
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YA is a sham
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You have so many questions about life and so few answers that it is easy to become depressed. That's okay, your life will change a lot over the next few years. You can change your looks if you are not happy with them. You will leave home one day soon and your brother will become a good friend and feel guilty for how he treated you. School aged bullies are dime-a-dozen. by the time you are of age, their numbers will decrease. Perhaps one day you will attend a school reunion and marvel at how the "pretty people" beacame the old goats.
Guys staring at you is a problem you can adress by being prepared to deal with them on their level. Hold your head high and don't give them the satisfaction of publicly annoying you. I would suggest you take some self defense classes. This will help you build your self-esteem and prepare you should you need to fend off some overly-frisky gawker. If you cannot take classes, ther are plenty of books in the library and your recreation and parks department may have free classes.
Chin up, true happiness can only come from within yourself. |
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ali_teror
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dont loose hope because once you loose hope you loose your way to live and once you loose your desire to live life you probably are dead mentally and I dont want that for you Pls talk to me aand I will help you I have an aunt in harrow add me to your messenger my ID is [email protected] |
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Discovery
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teenagers are mean, when they grow up, a lot of them regret the things they did when they were younger, so don't let them bother you, try to ignore those people, do things that make you happy, try to help people, convince people that you are a good person, it takes time, people may laugh at you sometimes, but keep doing what is right, eventually, people will see that and respect you. good luck. |
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perfectby.nature
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Keep Ur Head UP UP and Higher ! Have Fun with Life ! Ignore who annoys you ! U have a great soul ! talk to your Mom let her know how you feel ! |
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fetter_2004
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Well first thing, you need to go back to school. Once back in school you Will find someone to talk too a teacher or counsel Tell them your situation If you don't go back to school walk to your neighbors house and call. I cant stress enough how important school is!!! Keep positive and there are places to go on the Internet for help look up your local social services and email them. Good Luck |
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p'tit pois
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I have been there but for a different reason! I know its hard but the 1st step is realising you are depressed!!!!!! I know you dont want to but the best thing to do is speak to your Dr or a counseller! you proberbly think you are alone but you are not!! There are so many people out there to help!!!!!!!
as for bullies, 9times out of 10 they are just jelous of you for some reason!!!! Try not to let them know you are bothered by them! take very good care of yourself. Good luck! keep the grin above the chin!!!!!!! |
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Bobbie
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All I can do is send you a hug, sweetie. Big hug. |
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cubalishus
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If you managed to go on-line to get this question across then you have already started to make a change in your life by asking for help, first step and good step, you don't only have acess to phone lines for help, doctors can put you in touch with people who can listen to you and help you so please go and see your doctor and get some help, do not put up with what is going on your life, you do not have to, just walk into a Well Woman Centre they are brilliant and can really help, please do something soon. |
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poggle_63
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If you ring childline from a phone box I am sure someone could help you. 0800 11 11. They will be able to give you help and advice. |
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bluesun
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hey you got to report to the police about your brother's abuse. plus tell any adult about the kids harassing you. and screw these guys on the street. this happens here in america. you're gonna have to find something you like to do. do not lose it. i was there before. you are special. don't let people break you. stay up. holistic-online.com has a stress segment which deals with helping feel better. if all hell breaks loose, click on my name and we'll talk. sometimes we all need someone to share our pains. |
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LELOVEGIRL
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DON'T FEEL BAD ABOUT YOURSELF! CAUSE PEOPLES GOING TO TALK ABOUT OTHERS EVERYWHERE THEY GO NO MATTER HOW THEY LOOK. BUT YOUR MOM SHE SHOULD GET ON YOUR BROTHERS CASE CAUSE HE SHOULDN'T DO THAT DO WHAT OTHER PEOPLES DO. SHE SHOULD HAVE PUT YOU IN ANOTHER SCHOOL. I HAVENT EVEN MATE YOU AND I KNOW YOU ARE A BEAUTIFUL YOUNG GIRL AND YOU ARE ARE GOING TO BE SOMEONE VERY SPECIAL WHEN YOU GROW UP AND EVERYBODY IS GOING TO BE SO JOULIES OF YOU THEN. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL INSIDE AND OUT. SO NEXT TIME YOUR BROTHER WANT TO DO THAT YOU TELL HIM HE'S TALKING ABOUT HIS SELF CAUSE I SAID YOUR ARE BEAUTIFUL AND YOU ARE GOING TO BE BETTER THAN HIM ONE DAY. SO KEEP YOUR HEAD UP HIGH AND KEEP A SMILE ON YOUR FACE AND GO BACK TO SCHOOL AND WALK PASS THE CHILDREN WHO BULIY YOU IT NOT YOU FOT CAUSE YOU LOOK BETTER THAN THEM.DON'T LEAVE SCHOOL BECAUSE OF WHAT THEY SAY ABOUT YOU YOU ARE SMART AND GOING TO BE MORE SMARTER TO SMARTER THAN THEM. SO PLEASE GO BACK TO SCHOOL AND STAND UP TO THOSE BUILYS THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT THEYSELFS GO GO GO GO GO GO GO BACK TO SCHOOL I REALLY HOPE THIS HELP AND THINGS GET BETTER FOR YOU. I HOPE I CAN HELP YOU AGAIN SOON BYE. BUT REMEMBER WHAT I SAID GO BACK TO SCHOOL SWEETIE OK BYE FOR NOW. GOD BLESS YOU I GOT BUILET TO IN SCHOOL BUT I STELL WHET TO SCHOOL |
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kelly d
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I felt exactly the same hun at your age, school can be a nasty place sometimes, so can home, and anywhere else. You wont feel like this forever, i know that doesnt help when you feel so crappy now, but its the truth. isnt there anyway you can talk to your mum and explain to her how you feel? maybe when everyone else is out? If you cant call any helplines then can you access them on the net? Dont be angry with yourself hun the way you are feeling is not your fault, but the paople closest to you should be more helpful. Is your mum approachable? could you talk to her if you wanted? go to your room hun and chill out for a while and try to plan what you are going to say to your mum. Good luck hunxx |
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lisalukejodie
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Keep smiling!
Take up a hobbie or something your willing to learn.eg:swimming,tennis,dancing.
Every time i feel low i just go dancing its my favourite hobbie and it takes my mind of other things.
SMILE!
Lisa xx xx |
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Angel
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At you age theres no way you should be feeling like this, your only 15, you poor thing. Your brother has no right to hit you, and if your mother was any sort of mother she wouldn't let it happen. Tell her you need to talk to her just the two of you and tell her how your feeling. I that doesn't work then talk to a family member who you trust or a teacher. good luck. |
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BlueEyed
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I feel very sorry about it. But really don't know what are you supposed to do. Don't worry about your appearance. You're just 15 and your look will completely change soon. you told that men stare at you so you sure are pretty girl. You should hold up until you'll be at least 18, finish school, find a work... your life will change many times. and you should work on it to make it better life. If i could recommend start to read books and you'll forgot your troubles at least for few hours. And.. LOVE YOURSELF! you have many reasons for that. just find them! |
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lou897
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is there any time you are out of the house alone where you can perhaps walk to the police station and explain? Or tell a teacher? If you could see your doctor and explain he will help sort this out. i know it is v difficult for you love. try usuing the inernet to contact childline ( just type in keyword childline) and see if they can help.
It is important to remember YOU are BRILLIANT and have sooo much courage to write about this. What is happening to you is called ABUSE and no matter what the people around you say you are not to blame
I wish you luck and try to get some sort of help from the internet, doctor, police, teacher. |
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dr_b_evil
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visit ur local gp who will be very helpful and understanding. they will also put u in contact with a local counciler. its worth it !! i've been there. |
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Lucid_dreams
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I know how you feel..b/c once I felt the same exact way. I started to write poetry when I felt this way and I found out that it did help release a lot of stress that was on my chest. If not poetry just simply write your feelings down on paper and then burn them if you dont want someone such as you mom to find it. I know that could also led to a lot of problems. Just find someway to let yourself loose and who cares if the people at school bully you b/c in time they will get theirs. Just remember each and ever person is gorgeous in their own way you just have to find what your way is. |
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Jude
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I think it's a shame you've left school at fifteen, but I know school can be a crap place to be. First of all, it is quite normal to feel confused, miserable and to hate your appearance at your age. I know you think no-one feels like you do, but teenagers, and older people, all over the world, have feelings just like you.
If you are starting to feel very down, it is important to find someone to talk to. Are there any youth clubs in your area you could go to? You could make new friends there, and maybe talk to one of the leaders about how you are feeling. What is your doctor like? Could you talk to him or her about your feelings?
Changing into a woman can be very scary, I remember the confused feelings I had. Do any of your friends feel like you do? What do they do about their feelings? Sharing things with people you trust can really help.
Also, consider going back to school in September, many of the bullies may have left, or you could go to a sixth form college. It is important to have some kind of focus in your life, it will help you get a sense of control in your life.
What is your relationship with your parents like? I am sure they love you and want the best for you, do you think you could tell them how you feel? If not, I understand, sometimes the people we live with are the most difficult to talk to. But please, I do think it is important you find someone you can share your feelings with, and remember, you are not alone. |
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skeeter
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If you are angry with yourself for what you don't know why did you leave school? You really shouldn't let opinions of others bother you so much.
What is wrong with the way you look? Is it the way you dress, feel about yourself or what? Beauty really is only skin deep. you need to love & respect yourself before anyone else will.
If you are 15, you should just now be entering into the best times of your life not losing it. Step back & determine what is really wrong. Is it you or others?
Sounds like you just need to boost your self esteem up. This happens quite frequently with all ages of people.
Good luck, keep searching for the truth & by all means never give up or in. |
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♫Margie♪ the dork
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i don't fell like reading dat |
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Speak to anyone who will listen.
Post your question as many times as you can someone will have a good answer for you.
Good Luck |
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kristina N
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OK I can try to help. I have always been a big girl and people would make fun of me, My sister is the super modle type and always threw that in my face. At first I tried the aloof attitude and that didn't seem to work. So then I had the bully back attitude and too that didnt work. So finally I said I will do the same thing I started making jokes about it, Would you rather laugh at yourself or have strangers do it for you??? So I started laughing with them! Try that! I hope it helps! |
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Alex M
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find a good therapist or psyciatrist to go to and get medicine there is no reason u have to go through that also if u ignore the bullies they might go away because what they want 4rm u is a reaction hope this helps |
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complicatedlywonderful
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its cliche but: seek an external help source, someone that knows you and you trust. random people on the internet arent gonna be able to answer this effectively. |
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♥ SUMMER ♥
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ring a help line your parents dont have to no? tell an aunt or a close friend you must get help its not normal to feel this way being so young |
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colelover798
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Try listening to your favorite song. Go in your bed and cuddle up with your blankets take a step back from life and just relax.Take a hot shower.If you have a best friend give her a call and talk. |
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birdsfan
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Keep your head up...it can't rain all the time |
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