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Loz
How do i get over the loss of a loved one?
i reacently lost my baby neice who i loved like my own she was 7 weeks old and i cant stop the pain from hurting i miss her so much has any one got any tips on how to get over something like this please help
                     




ryan
try these:

1; Yoga, try sitting in a quite place, thinking nothing except your niece, try talk with her like in real, after that, i grauntee u feel better,

2; listen to some relaxing music
3; try talking with others about some happy things
4;just go and get some sleep, may be your not getting enough sleep and ur actually getting sadder and sadder


origamimark
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I am very sorry to hear of your sad loss. All you can do is let time take it's course. Things will improve over time.


tm99
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other children, people and things in your life need you love. don't waste your energy focusing on the one(I know you love her very much but the fact is, she's dead and there's nothing you can do about it)
that's no longer there. keep yourself in the hurting state for as long as possible is not the way to prove your love for her.


Jason A
gosh - how sad. the truth is you need to grieve -dont bottle it up , let it out. talk to people- those in a similar situation will have a better understanding and empathy for what your going through.
and the real truth is that while time will help there will always be some pain , thats what happens when you truly love someone- you will always love and miss them. lost my mom 14 years ago and i still think of what might of been and how mom never met my wonderfull partner or saw my two beautiful daughters. life goes on and is very precious. seize the day.


starlight
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im very sorry for your loss.i lost my unborn baby .and i can tell u that time doesnt heal all wounds but it makes it better and easier to handle the pain.and it helps a little when u think about the place your baby neice is now, a good place where she wont be treated wrong.nobody knows why something takes lives and especially young lives,but nobody dies without a reason.it is a very painfull and hard time,but she wouldnt want anybody to be sad,im shure.and when u think the pain is almost killing u then do something that she would have liked. i know all that is no comfort for u but maybe it is a little help..


The Great Nothing
Try to do selfless things. This shall heal you, besides time is the greatest healer. I lost my father in my arms and it took me nearly 3 years to recover and I was doing all selfless tasks during this time, hope you can recover in weeks only. The more time you spend with someone deeper is the pain of loss. Life goes on happen what may, just look around and do something which dont concerns you, but makes a positive change for someone else.


Ladder Captain-29
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You will never get over the pain but you will learn to control it- I lost my dad first, then 9 years later lost my mom and sometimes for no reason I cry because I miss them so and it comes mostly when I'm by myself-- love is always in the heart and memories will always be with you---- Sorry for your loss


Peter M
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The only thing that will help is time, allow your self to be upset, its normal and natural. The pain will always be there but will lessen with time. Pain is the price we pay for loving someone. Talk to people about it. Have a check in your local area for bereavement support groups, if you are in the UK try Compassionate Friends, they deal specifically with child death. Hope this helps.


grandad
Time is the only answer even then it still hurts when you least expect it to.Just try to be positive and remember the short time you both had together.It truly does become easier.Good luck and best wishes.


mgfizzle
try to do something that takes ur mind off her i know its hard because ive lost someone close to me to but u just got to stop thiking about it everythings going to be ok dont worry.


weeroppadc2
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Thank God that you had a good time with your niece and praise Him that she is in a better place.


Dana S
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sorry to hear about your lost i lost a husband he was a ex thoe but he was my first love it was hard to not show emotions because i was in a relation with another man at the time of his untimely death we have two children together me and the ex its been over five years now i still get emotionall thinking about him but timeis the key word here. my best friend lost her child some time ago i use to baby sit that child when he died it was the sadest day in my life but here we go with time time heels all wounds


bwadsp
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You don't. Time just helps you accept it more.


carrie
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You just have to take one day at a time and some days hurt more than others. I lost my mum in March. She died from cancer 3 months after we were told she had it. I nursed her for these 3 months and I am lost without her. I miss her terribly and think I always will. But you learn to cope with it. I dont want to not miss her or forget her I am just learning to live without her. Good luck and remember the good times not the bad.


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No one can help you get over this kind of pain. Its gonna take time for something so tragic. Im so sorry to hear that. I cant imagine how bad youre hurting, thats so sad. Its gonna take time, thats all. Youll never forget her, itll just get easier to deal with.


debra_har
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There is no one way to grieve, every person goes thru the stages of grief differently and at their own pace.

How To Find A Grief Support Group
Call your telephone operator and ask for the numbers for your local mental health association and your local suicide prevention center. Both types of agency have good grief referral lists. You need not be suicidal to get a grief referral from a suicide prevention center.
Use the Yellow Pages and call hospitals and hospices near you. Ask to speak with the Bereavement Coordinator, Social Worker, or Chaplain's Office to get a local grief referral. Many hospitals and hospices provide grief support to clients for up to one year following a death and offer groups to the general public.
If you are mourning the death of a child, check the national office of the Compassionate Friends to see if there is a group near you.

God Bless!


sup
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only time will heal the wound. Best of luck


twopipes1
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its hard ,u just have to except your loss and in time u will get over your it and learn to live with your loss sorry for what has happened good luck I hope this brought u comfort have a wonderful week


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You need to have a strong faith in God and the afterlife in order to believe fully that she still lives on as a spirit. Human beings have a tendency to complicate that which we don't understand. If you can't find comfort in religion then find comfort in something more tangible. I found comfort within a subject directly related to the afterlife. The answer you seek may be found in the study of paranormal research. You may not believe me, but I've seen ghosts. Five to be exact. My first encounter was with a young teenager who may have been killed in a gang related incident in the neighborhood I was living in at the time. Do searches on yahoo for "ghost orbs" and "evp ghost voices". My sincerest sorrow for the absence of your neice in your life. One day you will both be reunited.


Glama Girly
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Unfortunately, one never fully gets over a loss of a loved one. Time will heal and gradually it won't hurt quite as much. At the present time, maybe to get your mind on to other things may help. There are many people out there, who need our assistance, such as the elderly, etc, and while we are still here, we can always give it to them.


baffled_in_oz
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First of all, let me express how tragic your loss is and how sorry I feel to hear of your pain. Others have told you the truth, that you never do get over the death of a loved one, you just learn to live your life around the fact that they're gone. Time helps, but in the case of death, it doesn't heal. There is an outstanding brochure entitled "When Someone You Love Dies" published by Jehovah's Witnesses. Put aside any prejudged ideas about their religion (if you have negative ideas about them) and obtain this beautiful brochure. No matter who or what you are spiritually, this brochure will validate your intense emotions and bring you some comfort and hope. It's free, by the way. Just write and request it. 25 Columbia Heights, Brooklyn, NY 11201-2483.


mr. M
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just accept it..and look for the good/bright side why she was not able to live here on earth..maybe GOD has other purpose..!!


pan
I am sorry to hear about the loss. Best way to remember is to keep a nice smiling pic of hers visible to you , and get on with your work. The pic is going to keep you motivated and in the end of course TIME , the greatest remedy of them all !

My wishes and sympathies


Sam H
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maybe try to find some sort of comfort, and an unfailing love from the Bible

type in love in the below site and read something about a God who loves you unconditionally and give you a hope and an inspiration for the future


Georgie's Girl
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you said she died recently, so why are you trying so hard to get over it. allow yourself time to grieve and don't feel guilty for it. there is no cure, time will lessen the pain but it will never go.


Trish
I am sorry for your loss, that has to be so hard....just know that time does wonders with healing and just know its time that will take away the worst of this pain you feel. Let out what you feel and take the time to grieve. Dont lose yourself in the whole grieving process either, try doing things for yourself for comfort (not eating, drinking etc) but something like a nice walk or something you enjoy. Remember the good things you did get to share and know that she is in a safe and loving place.
Take care


♥ღღElke ღღ♥
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I`m so sorry for your loss....(hugs)

Five Stages Of Grief
Denial and Isolation.
At first, we tend to deny the loss has taken place, and may withdraw from our usual social contacts. This stage may last a few moments, or longer.
Anger.
The grieving person may then be furious at the person who inflicted the hurt (even if she's dead), or at the world, for letting it happen. He may be angry with himself for letting the event take place, even if, realistically, nothing could have stopped it.
Bargaining.
Now the grieving person may make bargains with God, asking, "If I do this, will you take away the loss?"
Depression.
The person feels numb, although anger and sadness may remain underneath.
Acceptance.
This is when the anger, sadness and mourning have tapered off. The person simply accepts the reality of the loss.
Grief And Stress
During grief, it is common to have many conflicting feelings. Sorrow, anger, loneliness, sadness, shame, anxiety, and guilt often accompany serious losses. Having so many strong feelings can be very stressful.

Yet denying the feelings, and failing to work through the five stages of grief, is harder on the body and mind than going through them. When people suggest "looking on the bright side," or other ways of cutting off difficult feelings, the grieving person may feel pressured to hide or deny these emotions. Then it will take longer for healing to take place.

Recovering From Grief
Grieving and its stresses pass more quickly, with good self-care habits. It helps to have a close circle of family or friends. It also helps to eat a balanced diet, drink enough non-alcoholic fluids, get exercise and rest.

Most people are unprepared for grief, since so often, tragedy strikes suddenly, without warning. If good self-care habits are always practiced, it helps the person to deal with the pain and shock of loss until acceptance is reached.


kippie
sorry 2 say this but you can never get over this time will ease the pain but there will always be that gap in your life as she was so young and every1 was just getting used 2 her being around i am very sorry for your lose take care of your self


auntb93again
Time, honey. There's really nothing but time to heal that wound. After awhile, it won't hurt so much to remember her, and then finally it will be pleasant to remember the good things, and the bad will fade to a mild regret.

I lost My Steve nine months ago, and it was just the other day I was talking to a friend of mine whose husband is a POW in the drug war, who is expected home in December. She was saying how bad she missed her husband. I said, I miss mine, too, but the difference is he's not coming back. I started to cry, and she hugged me, and we both realized that was the first time I had said that out loud. No, he's not coming back. It's not a question of whether or not I can face it; it is a fact.


lilredhead
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I lost my Father alamost 1 year ago , while i was 6 months Pregnant , .. It's a Very very hard thing to over come , when you lose someone So very close you. Crying helps , you must get it all out , never hold thoses tears in, just let them flow , Time will Heal all , an it seems to take forever I know. If your like me , an crying just dont seem to work , Go talk to Someone , they have many Free Mental Health places for people to just go talk an let it out. I tell ya Talking to someone , outside of the family Helps alot. It gives you a chance to just let it all out. I hope I may have been of some help.

Hang in there Honey. I am very sorry for you loss.


dingwall
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Last year I lost my baby daughter, she was only a few hours old. The anger I felt at the world was indescribable, especially when I thought of people that were cruel to children or when I thought of women abusing drugs and alcohol during pregnancy, because I did everything by the book and this precious little gift was taken from us. The only thing I can say sweetheart, is that you do not really get over it, the pain gets easier. You will never forget your Niece. Try and think of her as very special, a wee angel who will always be with you. I know that when my special girls 1st birthday came, my husband and I were dreading it, but we decided to make it happy and put some lovely bright flowers at her grave and took a private time to remember her. National baby Loss awareness Day is October 15th, when people all over UK light a candle and let go of balloons, at organised events or in private. We took part privately last year and so did many of our friends and family, I found it very comforting.

My thoughts are with you and the parents of your niece.
www.babyloss-awareness.com


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