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 What should I do? Please can anyone help me?
OK guys here's the deal last week I was having fear & anxiety about my health.......this was last week now.......but then I remember how'd I went to five different doctors which all ...


 what's your reason for not ending it all???????????????????
Mine is that i have some foolish hope that life will get better. and i'm scared that the christians might be right and if i end my life, ill spend eternal damnation in hell. Whats yours???????...


 Is this normal for a teenager to go through?
im 16 yrs old and for the past 3 years i've been really depressed. Its gotten so bad in the last year that i actually tried to comment suicide a couple of times but was too scared to do it.
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 I'm Contemplating Suicide?
I've been on medication and have been going to therapy for quite a while none of it seems to work, so i'm going to ask what you people think i should do. I can't take it anymore
A...


 What's your phobia?
I have a fear of hospitals, anything clinical, needles you name it.
Also sirens and ambulaces.
What's your phobia?...


 Really really depressed someone help?
im 13 and a guy everyone picks on me at school all because im short and look like crap i have no friends our family barley has any money my parents are really old i get really bad grades at school ...


 what's a good stress reliever?
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 Could i be addicted at 15?
i am 15 old girl. in the middle of june me and my freinds really wanted to smoke for some reason so we found her dad cigs and took to out for us. then a couple of days after we found to packs of cigs ...


 My daughter just turned 7 and she has anger issues that come out of nowhere. Also she hates her life?
She has an obsessive compulsive disorder and adhd. The other day my oldest daughter and her were swimmimg and just laughing having a good ole time when she just snapped and shoved my oldest down and ...


 No hope left.. What do I do now?
At 13 yrs old, these problems are probably nothing compared to what's out in the "real world", but the stress and pain keep piling up and I don't think I can handle this much ...


 i feel so depressed but dont want help?
im so depressed i am always angry at everything everyting annoys me i just cry cuz im sik of everything but i dont want counselling i have been threw this and i hate counselling any other way i can ...


 do i need help to stop cutting?
my friends are mad at me because i cutt myself. i want to get help butt i dont want to get sent away, or tell my mom.ive tried to tell my sister but she takes it out of porportion. if i tell my mom ...


 How can someone on Y!A think they can diagnose you with a mental disorder or personality based on 1 question?
Based on a brief question, 1 lady called herself, trying to diagnose me with Cluster B personality traits & narcissistic. No one has ever called me that before!

& I know I have low ...


 why do i always sleep?
i sleep, wake up and eat, watch tv til i fall asleep again, and im only getting worse. im falling asleep typing this question right now? help me?
Additional Details
i sleep 12 to 18 hrs ...


 Do I have a mental illness? PLEASE ONLY SERIOUS ANSWERS ANY OTHERS WILL BE REPORTED?
PLEASE ONLY SERIOUS ANSWERS ANY OTHERS WILL BE REPORTED.
Ok whenever something happens like my head will hurt and I automaticlly think I have a tumor, or other thinks like that. I just get ...


 What could be wrong with someone who is unable to hold a minimum wage job? Can't pretty much anyone do an?
adequate job at one?...


 Why am I having so many nightmares?
It's not just one or two dreams, it's every time I close my eyes. I lay awake for hours because every time I come close to slipping into the unconscious world a terrible something or ...


 help i don't know what to do?
Recently i have started getting bullied at school because i am clever and the teacher have reconized that i have improved and my 'friends' are not happy because i am better then them. Also, ...


 how would you describe this girl?
there's this girl i know, and i think she has a problem..seriously! on her myspace, she creates fake myspace profiles and pretends that those people are her friends! like she made a fake profile ...


 Apart from shooting myself, is there any cure from absolute grief?
I'm looking for reasoned answers here, not from r&s people.
I'm losing control of my perception of reality. What is the point of stuggling on through a debiliating illness and ...



kitty
I want to die I think about death a lot?
I am a 22 year old female, just turned 22 today as a matter of fact Its just another nail in my coffin, I am going down sooner rather than later. I have clinical depression and have been on lexapro 15mg for about ten months now. Today I told my doctor I want to stop. To be honest I dont think they are working for me. He put me on 10 mg now for one month then 5 for the next month then I will be finished, but the problem has not been solved and I am sicker than ever. I cant stop thinking about death, and ways to commit suicide everyday. I have even begun writing suicide letters to the ones I love. I cant go on with life, hating everyday I wake up, wishing I hadn't. I cut my wrists and legs more now than I used to, I go through phases of doing so and not doing so, nobody knows I cover up well. I overdose on laxatives, I dont know why, I pull my hair out in clumps, I cry non - stop, sometimes I drink to forget, I want to be dead. I was abused as a child and both my parents are terminally ill, my father is dyeing. I want to tell my doctor all this but I cant, he is a good doctor and would listen, I would find it to hard to do so. I NEVER speak like this to ANYONE. I care for my parents who both have different disabilities. I hate the thoughts of loosing them. They love life are so optimistic. I hate life, I would give mine up anyday. I have staring having fainting episodes again, it has been years since that happened, I told my doctor and he said it was just as a result of panic. I want to be dead. I cry, I cry, I cry, please God take me.
                      








True Muslim
hey, if you want to die then, there is nothing i can do to stop you from that but ill leave you with two quotes before i go.


Be yourself beautiful, and you will find the world full of beauty.


Whoever follows patience, sucess will follow him




Laura Keenan
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Your 22! What a beautiful age! Listen, no matter how bad life seems, things do and WILL get better for you. If you want them to! What i suggest is trying yoga or reiki.You have been blessed with life. What you need to think about is that depression is a chemical imbalance. There is nothing wrong with you that isnt wrong with a million other people. I understand that the fact that you were abused is getting you down. I do a course in health and social and understand the mental stress of people who were abused, to a certain degree. You really do have so much to live for. What i do when i feel down is think to myself that no matter how bad things can seem, there is ALWAYS ALWAYS people who are much worse off than you. Keep your chin up. Go out with friends even if you dont feel like it, talk to someone! Dont kill yourself. YOU ARE WORTH TOO MUCH!


Miranda M
i think ur lyen


Mrs. Beatty
You need to go to church. Find God in your heart. When you have God in your life you are much happier. God doesn't judge you. Also, I am sure there is something you like doing. Take on a hobby. Go for walks. Realize that you control your own mind, don't let your mind control you. Find a friend who you can talk to when you feel like this. If you need to talk to someone you can always email me. I will never judge you. If you care for your parents as much as you say you do then you wouldn't want to hurt them by killing yourself. They would be very sad to be with out you. Just realize that you are just lost right now and killing yourself will only take you to a darker place. In the Bible it says you should not do any harm to yourself. I hope you find your way and I hope you find a hobby.


Anna F
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what i would say to do is write about it. What you feel, its better to let it out than having it keep inside. There is no cure of depression, i can tell you that, but there are ways to lift it just enough that you cant notice it.


babbbyy<3
no no no! listen girl...u need to enjoy life...SEE A THERAPIST. no joke. it helps you so much! babe, u need to not cut urself that is so f***** dangerous and non healthy. maybe instead of crying, vent to one of ur best best best friends or a very very very close family member. it will be awkward but it will help! also, please talk to a docotor. and pray ur mind will be healed.


cheaaaaaaaa
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damn u have it bad but think about all people in third world countries with nothing.......i hope the best for you, you have some issues and i think u need a new therapist to help you sort them out....i was suicidal at one point in my life but with medication and the help of my therapist i was able to make it through.....hang in there girl


Lacey J
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please see a psychologist, suicide is never the answer you hurt so many people when you take your own life...and i know this from personal experience because my father kill myself and every day that goes by it still hurts...please if you feel uncomfortable telling your doctor you have now it may be best to find another you do feel comfortable with...


blazer14760
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Okay, my friend's mother is also clinically depressed, PILLS DON'T WORK!!!! Get of them, for one, really they only make it worse because your body will develop an addiction to them. Seek therapy, talk to your friends about your problems, don't kill yourself, that's just a bad thing to think about...


Mik p
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i understand how you are suffering but suicide is against the God, enjoy your life until u can, do your best, and tell everything to your doctor and they will help you for sure. God gave us wonderful life to do something for you or others and live best, we get life once after that who knows.......? so live your life and enjoy it, Good Luck...!


I ♥ Train
aww its going to be ok.
keep writing your very talented.
talk to your friends and parents about this.
death is not what you want.
be selfless for a second
if you weren't here what would your family do
they would cry and if you love them so much
find help
there are people that would offer a shoulder for you to cry on
anti-depressents dont help at all
they usually make you more depressed
take upon a hobby
do anything to distract yourself from the thoughts of death
please please
someone out there is thinking of you
dont kill yourself, i will be sad and i dont even know you :(



<3 lauren


slaarwalhz
You need to see a psychiatrist right away. They are the ones who are in charge of diagnosing mental illnesses, and depression. A regular doctor can not prescribe the right depression meds. But a psychiatrist can. And talking about it will help. They doctor knows just what to say. Good Luck whatever you decide.


Becca
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You should definitely talk to someone about this. This person could be either someone you know (your doctor seems like a good option) or someone you don't if that would be easier (you could try 1-800-273-TALK (1-888-628-9454) as it's totally anonymous...kind of like this). Definitely tell your doctor that the medicine isn't helping because he has no way of knowing without you telling him. I know life may be difficult now , but it will get better (though I don't necessarily expect you to believe me)...try doing something new or getting a pet...something to keep you occupied and provide a sense of accomplishment/enjoyment.
Even though suicide may seem like a good option (or at least one worth considering) it will cause more pain (not just physical) than you think.


holysocks1
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You can and should talk to your doctor. The lexapro probably made you feel worse than you would otherwise, so hold out, death isn't worth it. When it's your time God will take you.

Your doctor will most likely have you talk to a therapist. You need to tell someone who cares! You will do more harm than good if you take your life. Whatever happened to you (abuse) was not your fault, and in time the offender will get what's coming to them if they haven't already.

When you do a lot of negative thinking, it is terrible (physically) for your brain function. When you focus on what you hate, the emotional part of your brain fires up and the thoughtful part gets "colder" so you become unhappy and make bad decisions. The way a person thinks from moment to moment determines how your brain works.

When you begin to decide to be happy, and have positive thoughts, this will also determine how your brain works from moment to moment and you wont be trapped in your depressed state any longer. You have more control over it than you think.

You have people in your life that care about you whether it's friends, relatives, and even your parents. I know you said your parents are terminally ill, but they need to know what's going on. I would want to know if one of my children were feeling like this and I'd want to know before it was too late.

Stop focusing on death, so you can start focusing on life!



Everyman
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If you're going to kill yourself, what do you have to lose by telling your doctor and the ones you love about your problems? Don't kill yourself. Life is the most precious thing you can have, hence why your parents are still hanging in there. And it would probably devastate your parents to find you dead. For your sake, for the sake of others, live. DO NOT be modest or pessimistic. You living right now is making others happy.If you have enemies you really hate (enemies can be more than just people. They can be events such as abuse, or conditions such as depression), that's another reason to live. As Confucius once said (this is paraphrasing) "The ultimate revenge is living a good life". Live and live well so you can get revenge on the forces that made your life a hell and make your parents happy. If you should come through all these problems, you could help others in the future with similar problems.

If you're afraid to speak your problems, perhaps resort to writing them out.


AGBert
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It sounds like you're under a tremendous amount of stress and have dealt with/are dealing with some very traumatizing situations.

Antidepressants help, but I find that often times after a period of about three months they flat out stop working for me and I have to change to a new brand.

If I were you, I'd ask your doctor to prescribe a new kind of antidepressants. There are lots of options... Zoloft, Cymbalta, Celexa, etc.

And just remember that it WILL get better. There is always a light at the end of tunnel, and you don't need to turn to suicide to reach that light. Find things you enjoy doing in life. I find jogging once a day really makes me feel better, it gives me a reason to go out and makes me feel like I've accomplished something. Volunteer work also helps - you may as well use the time you'd spend laying in bed depressed helping other people.

Good luck... the light is always there!


short cake
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I was never this depressed but I remember turning 22. I felt the same way as you, that I was stuck in a rut and I would never be able to pull myself out. I just kept doing what I was doing, and I am so much better for it. Please just keep going. Life gets better.


not my real name
you need to tell your doctor all of this so you can get the right help. If lexapro isnt working for you, there are lots of medications that you can try. i take wellbutrin and it works fine for me. another thing, if you are taking medications for depression, dont drink, because alcohol is a depressant and it will make you feel worse. you need to tell your doctor all of the things that you said in here, he wont tell anybody because there is a law that protects the patients confidentiality. but he can refer you to get more help. dont commit suicide. im sure that if you can stop feeling the way that you feel, you can have a happy and normal life, and youll be stronger to comfront all of your problems. we all have to die someday, but it should not decided by you, you still have a life ahead. find a good boyfriend or something that makes you feel better.


chiweeweedmf
Perhaps you would do better to "live for your parents"? They need you, and that gives you great purpose in life. Try to focus on that and take one day at a time. It means the world to your parents to have the blessing of you in their day-to-day lives. Give them that gift:)


I♡Twilight
Start reading the bible and find god before he takes you away.


Rach T
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Honey you need a different doctor! You need a phsychatrist. You need a good medication to help with your feelings. Some medications make thoughts of suicide more severe. Please get proper medical care.


Bella and Liv's mummy
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Oh honey im sorry for you. Your life is only just beginning. Get a second opinion. I think your doctor may have misdiagnosed you. Talk to someone about it because the more you hide it the more alone you will feel. The people that love you will help you so don't be afraid to talk to them. I wish you all the best and I do hope you pull through.


truth_betold
honestly go into a hospital... i was abused as a child and had to be admitted into a state hospital when i was 13 and didnt get out until i was 17 yeahhh but it was sooooo worth it..now i have a better head on my shoulders than most people and i know how to handle my emotions and stuff..im soo glad i didnt do what i once thought was the only way...know that everything you are goiung through is all in your head and you just need some good therapy..and if its not working just taking some meds and not being able to talk to the doc and if u have nothing to live for then get into a hospital..crazy people r quite entertaining too lmao and i enjoyed watching people do crazy things when i was in the hospital lmao it was sometimes very outrageous anywaysss you should totally go aesepcially if u have no more optinosd


Lallalalall
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Sometimes in life we have to do things we don't want to do. This is one of those times. I had to go to the psych hospital, do you think I wanted to? No, but I was getting the help I needed, and I knew it. Tell your doctor, please, this is serious..It could save your life.


kro
I used to think like that too.

If you stop and think about how short our time in this life really is then you will realize it's not worth it to end your life.


marshmellow dance
you need to get away for a while. the worst thing to do at a time like this is stay trapped inside your bedroom. go to a zoo. it might sound funny,but my sister is a therapist and this is one of the best ways to heal your mind. go to a zoo,walk around. look at the animals.spend a day there and drink lots of water.eat dark chocolate. it will calm your nerves.
take a good friend with you.
going to clinics to heal depression gets it stuck on your mind, and that's terrible. go to a zoo and spend a day and night at a friend's house rather than your own. this also helps.

understanding where you're at, how you are feeling, is a huge step. this shows that you can still control yourself. you need pamper yourself for a while. go to a salon, get hair or nails done. take a day at a spa.
relax, relax and relax.
don't focus on medications or subscribed therapies. show yourself that you can enjoy life.

doing so will make you feel better. relax and get well.


ms bell
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I feel bad for you because I'm depressed, too, and I'm 44. I'm double your age and have been depressed all my life. I think about suicide all the time too, so don't think it's just you. I've tried all the meds and therapy, and still feel bad. There's no cure for depression. If I don't get sick and die within the next several years, I'll probably kill myself. There's just no other way out. As for you, you have many other medications to try besides Lexapro. Try other medications and therapy. I hope it works for you. Also, it sounds like you have OCD. My daughter had it and tore out her hair too. I'm afraid of losing my mom because she's 81. She's not in bad health, but at that age she doesn't have many years left. I hate life, too, and pray to God that I die. At least try other medications before you decide to permanently opt out.


Shay
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You really need to explain your feelings to your doctor so he can give you the help you need. If it is too hard to say verbally, then print out wrote you wrote here and give it to your doctor to read himself. But you have to get help before you really do kill yourself.


Tom
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I hate this world, the stupid people here, the idiots with power, the dumbasses who follow, the little boys who need their mommy government and the religious nuts who need saving.

But, I just watch and enjoy the show.

Watch some George Carlin. I think he'll brighten up your days.


Sid hollows
your an exelent writer, killing yourself would be a waste of talent.


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