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 i'm just going to come right out with it. should i seek professional help?
i have been suffering depression for several years now. i have my good days... like when my sons were born... but for the most part i am almost always in a funk. i try to joke about serious things, ...


 I Cant sleep! What should I do?
this is the 3rd night in a row and I have to work in the morning. I've tried a glass of wine, a Benadryl, a natural supplement, everything I usually do these past 3 nights and I can't sleep ...


 I heard my mom prayers and ?
It was something that I dont understand at all, she kept saying god please make my husband bigger to save our marriage, I dont wana cheat.. god please consider this serious...
What the hell i ...


 Bored....dont knwo what to do?!?
I have no idea what to do...im bored out of my mind..any ideas?...


 Why I shouldn't drink alcohol when I am depressed?
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 How to calm an panic attack?
Been dealing with panic attacks again (especially with all the bad weather lately)

What are some good ways to get my anxiety in check. (I try to not to use medicine for it. Infact I don&...


 Why am I so messed up in the head :(?
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 I am not really sure how to ask this, perhaps it is silly to ask, I'm sure a lot of you will agree?
Hmm..I'm not even sure how to put this, I am seeking something but I don't know what I feel torn, I feel like I have to hurry up and find whatever it may be, it's not depression I'...


 i feel so suicidal23?
well i have a disability and my parents want to hold me back till im 21 and i dont want that. Then i see other people getting pictures for seniors and getting cap and gown pictuers and they will also ...


 Are any of you on anti depressants?
Going through a divorce. Wife left me wiht the kids and house. I feel sad to a pint sometimes that I am not motivated to do anything or even concentrate on work and my kids.

Will any ...


 how do i cope with wanting to die???
i was born and raised in sc, but i now live in ohio. i hate it here, i hate my job, the people, and im starting to hate my life!! i dont kno how to cope with things, please give me some kind ...


 what causes depression?
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 Today I saw some mentally ill people on the bus?
I live in Scarborough in Toronto and basically a group (4 or 5) of mentally ill people walked into the bus.

They were extremely loud, cross-eyed, and usually talked fast and slurred in ...


 wife cheated, whats the best advise to rid my self of being depressed?
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 How do I deal with depression?
I would like to know how to deal with depression with out taking the meds that the doctors give me? I was told that some people do it but i wasnt sure how....


 Should I order a Pizza?
It's getting late and I must know...Should I?...


 Do I have OCD?
Some examples of the things I do.

I always count things, I sometimes have to keep things squared from the edge of a table, or arrange things.

I always make squares or triangles ...


 ***someone help please...I'm numb...***?
Ok, This has been happening for a while now. I'd say a year or two. I feel almost nothing, I experience things on a very non-emotional level. I used to have emotions, but now they are about 1/10...


 Why is my mom in denial that something may be wrong with me?
All my life my mom has always refused to believe that i may have a mental disorder. I think i have ADD. I checked online and i fit almost every symptom that people with ADD have ive had these ...


 do you think im extremely sensitive or not?
i think that i know what exactly others are thinking about me
i go into such details that i would want to act and say the way the think of me
if someone thinks that im smart, i would always ...



KRS-♥-JTB
How do I tell my mom that I am depressed?
I mean I don't know how to tell her I can't take it no more. I am hurting my family and everyone around me because of this thing. And I don't want to end up killing myself. This has been happening for a year.
                      








laydee
Dont tell her you are depressed!
tell her how you feel and she will figure it out because she is a MOTHER. exactly how you feel


erikaariel13
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i know its hard and i always told my mother probably in the wrong ways because she never did anything about it... tell her nicely and just say hey i have this problem its a huge problem that is a detrement to everyone and i need some help from you. tell her you need her to understand when you act up because you really dont mean it.


Angela
Tell her be open dont hide anything. I tell my son if your open with me i will understand but if you lie or hide something from me i will punish you... Its sorta like that just be open with her she will understand.


RandyCasino
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Dear Cookie, You know Im here for you if you need me! E-mail me and we will get this worked out! RandyCasino!


bestsource
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Why don't you feel that you can tell her?

She may not realize, as many don't, that depression is a chemical issue and does not reflect on your personality, your individual strength, or anything like that. It is simply a condition (like high blood pressure) that many many people deal with. Medications can help you keep this under control, and eliminate it.

She may understand this already, if she doesn't, beready to talk about (do some research online, etc.). You might also consider talking to a guidance counselor at school. They can help you approach your mom, or even talk to her about it. Just remember, it's not something to be embarrassed our ashamed of. (Take it from me, I have a PhD in Psychology).



Chicaboom!
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I think your mom would know that you are depressed. The best way is to have a one-on-one dialogue with your mom. Make sure its a quite place where no one will bother the both of you. Slowly talk things out and explain to her what's been going on with you. That's how I usually talk it out with my mother and we don't even get along at times. Hope it works out for you. :)


Texas granny turtle
Be direct, Say Mom, I need a doctor appointment. Then try to explain it has been going on long time. Legally she is responsible to get you help.
It is great you know something isnot right. It may be as simple as a nuttion problem or a hormone balance medication. Dont stress about the appointment. Just be honest you have these thoughts. If mom fails you in understanding this tell a councelor, as to speak to one at school.
I attenpted suicide at 16, 1969, so I can relate to your problem some. Back those days they just pumped you out and sent you home.She thought it was just over a boyfriend and my grades but it took many years to learn all reasons of my problems. Or at least thats how it was for me.


Anna D
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say mom...i think it would be best for me and everyone if i see a therapist...


Sheeni
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tell her exactly that.

just come out and say i think i need help and explain whats going on.


Kelly
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Just sit down and talk to her. Tell her how your feeling. She will understand and will help you and be by your side.


emilysusan76
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Just tell her. If she can't accept it, then reach out to another caring adult.

Suicide is not a laughing matter and she shouldn't treat it as so. So, just tell her.


b
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How don't you? Tell her exactly how you feel. She'll completely understand and most likely get you some help.


princess
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Surely if your behaviour hasn't been normal then she knows?

If you haven't seen a doctor about your problems then I would suggest you do so, who might refer you to a psychiatrist who can help you.

It worked for me and i'm totally fine now.

If you don't see someone about it soon, and tell your mum then it can get worse. You really need your family's support through a difficult time like this.

XXX


MathisNotMySubject
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just tell her straight up, its better she hear it from you then a psychiatrist, thats how my mom found out about me, you'll be surprised at how much your mom will care if you tell her.


♥ Bluffin With My Muffin ♥
you just have to tell her. That's all you can do. You have a problem, you need to find a solution to it. Telling your mother is step one.


Happy- Go
quit hurting your self and your family...allot people probably have or had the same problem...call a suicide hot line and ask them to help you.....your not ready to die....you want to live and be happy and you can with a simple phone call...just 411 an operator for a suicide hot line !!!! you can do it I will pray for you !!


Josh
Don't tell her your depressed, explain the problem to her and then tell her you've been thinking about it a lot lately.


dedepoll
JUST TELL HER I NEED TO TELL U SOMTHING AND TELL HER HOW U FEEL AND SHE WILL UNDERSTAND AND SHE WILL TALK 2 U


army mom
Do you attend school? If so, talk to your guidance counselor and maybe he/she may help you and get a Conference together with your mom.
If you don't go to school anymore, you NEED to tell her. Write a note. By writing her a note, she listens with her eyes and can go back and reread it. More emotions and things you want to say can be much better on paper. You seem nervous about confronting her. so please if you cant confront her, write it down and explain how you feel.


SJ
write a letter about your mind...
if you want to tell them... i recomend you to write a letter how you feel and how hard it is.. and it can not be controlled even though you tried hard(it might better to tell them-->accoding to a medical study)
if you say face to face, it can make you feel ackward and they might try not to hear it before you finish because they feel like you are Blaming them (in my case they were angry at me and said me "why do you feel like that you are so weird. i did everything for you why? just don't feel depression!!!!!!!)
i try this way before when i want to tell something hard to say them...because it give them time to think and it doesn't have accent so they can think more logically...

i have had the simiral problem...i don't know why but i always depressed....sometimes i cry all day in my badroom and have an insomnia.. sometimes angry to my family when they asked me why...it's beem few years..
i went to see a dortor and took a pill for 1year and half..that time i was not that bad....but it isn't help you permanontly...you should make something you can proud of yourself....and make a realizable dream and try it...and say in your mind "i should live for it"...


nympix
Mom, I'm depressed. I am tired of hurting my family and everyone around me because of this thing. And I don't want to end up killing myself. This has been happening for a year and I need some help.


Barnabas
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Tell her that; if she is hurting as you say, she loves you. And since you are concerned about hurting your family you must love her too. Find a quiet place and do what you can to ensure both of you will not be interrupted and sit down and really talk with your mom. You must tell her what's on your mind and let her know you want help to overcome this issue.

Taking your life is DEFINITELY not the answer to the problem.

If you need help, please dial 1-800-273-TALK
http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/


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