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 My mother has been diagnosed with breast cancer,the Job Centre says I can't get benefit,is that morally right
My mother is 83 years old, in November 2006 she broke her hip in a fall and is still recovering from that, in December 2007 she was diagnosed with breast cancer, and tomorrow (Jan 10) she goes for ...

 How many cigarettes do you smoke in a day?

 can you really get breast cancer from sleeping with your bra on?
i've heard this from a couple people, but i'm still not quite convinced....

 Im only 22 and have cancer from alcohol and tobacco use. Should I tell my family? I dont have much time left!!?
I Know that I am dying for sure. I started abusing alcohol as a teen because of emotional problems. I never talked to anybody about any of my emotional problems idk why but it always seemed hard for ...

 do i have cancer? i'm serious..please answer?
i have been feeling really tired lately. i'm losing weight. i found 2 small lumps on my neck, which has been hurting alot lately. what do you think? i'm a little scared, what do i do?...

 Is it possible for a 13 year old to get breast cancer?
I sometimes have lumps in my breasts and sometimes its all hard. I am super worried and sometimes only my left breast hurts....

 can men have breast cancer?
can men have breast cancer and if they do what are some singns/
and what really is breast cancer?...

 If I found a cure for cancer would the government kill me?
I mean I am pretty sure that the Govt made cancer as a form of population control....

 cancer, cant go to toilet because of medication?
my fathers got cancer, hes 60 years old, never had a pill in his life, but now hes on al sorts he cannot go, normally every morning go we go to toilet (poo) now he hasnt been for 5 days and keeps ...

 is lung cancer possible for a 19 year old?
i've been smoking since i was 15
and recently have had sharp chest pains,difficulty to breath,chesty cough
im scared please help :(...

 Can someone please give me advice on how to stop smoking?
I've been smoking for 32 yrs now and it has finally caught up with me. I actually can't breath anymore but my body is craving nicotine. I try to quit but I can't, any advice would be ...

 How would you tell someone they had cancer or a terminal disease?
i am writing a narrative and the character in my story is about to be told she has cancer. i am not really sure how to word it though. does anyone have real experience with this or maybe is a doctor? ...

 Im sixteen years old and have found a lump in my breast...could it be breast cancer?
I was just doing a little check when I found a lump that feels like a marble in my left breast. Is it possible that I could have breast cancer??Im sixteen, and have never heard of someone my age with ...

 If you had six months to live what would you do with the remainder of your life?

 I just found out that my brother has full blown cancer how long does it take before it takes over his body?
we were told that the cancer has spread everywhere throughout his body:(
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my parents are ...

 What type of cancer is most common for smokers?
Oral Cancer?
Throat Cancer?
Lung Cancer?...

 Why is there no cure for Cancer?
I hear that there is for all forms of Cancer , but it is just about the money.

I mean wouldnt they make as much money with a cure as with treatments and hospitaization ?

This is ...

 What are your thoughts on the Jade Goody cancer case?
I personally feel very sorry for her, but wishes she'd stay away from the press and stop doing media stories.. :(...

 Is it true spray deodrant increases your risk of cancer?
Because of the aluminium in it? I heard that today, & now I'm terrified because there's a lot of history of cancer in my family, have I just blown it by using spray deodrant for the ...

 can too much bubble gum cause cancer?
some say yes and some say no.what is the correct answer-yes or no?...

Merry Martin
My husband has late stage cancer and has started to wet his pants. Should I tell him we're through?
I married a man, not a baby, and I don't intend to change diapers. Do you think I'm right to divorce him now, or would the right thing to be to stick it out? It'll probably only be a few more months, that's what the doctors say.

how ******* shallow are you!? i hope you get cancer just for thinking such a thing!

If this is serious then you are sick. If this is a joke then you are even sicker.

no he needs all the support he can get at this stage and if you leave him you may not get to say goodbye at the funeral
if you leave him you will miss him more than if you would have stayed as you would have left him and you will feel bad!
hope i helped a little!


I cannot believe this is a serious question. I go along with Merina in that you should hire someone to take care of his needs, if indeed you are serious. I find it hard to believe you wasted every-ones time with such a self-centered question. Hopefully there is someone out there who cares enough about your husband to help him through this terrible time. I really just feel you had nothing better to do today.

Christine G
How cold and unloving, I sure hope this is a joke. Anyone who would leave someone for a health condition.......I can't even say how that makes me feel.

No, you just go on make "Merry" and asking dumb questions.

Sharon D
That is just sad that you could even ask such a question...I feel sorry for your husband IF this isn't a joke.

How cruel. You married him for better or worse, in sickness and in health. If you divorce him now then I have to agree with the others you are a real b****. If you truly loved him you would be wanting to do everything you could for him. The man is dying and you can only think of yourself.

I hope you got your perverted kicks out of this very unfunny question.

Stay with him

It would depend on several factors but for the most part the answer is yes. I am sure that if I asked you if you have any love left for him the answer would be no. The only other relavant question is would you expect him to stay to change your diapers if it were you with the cancer. If the answer is yes then you might consider staying.
Since the cancer is late stage the real question is why divorce him when you could just seperate. In most states a divorce means dividing all community property and giving up on all claim to the remainder of the property. The remainder of the estate goes to willed parties or in lieu of a will to the surviving next of kin. If there is a surviving spouse then all property remains in their custody until both are dead.
You could seperate or you could remain in the home and begin dating either discreetly or openly depending on how daring you are. the bottom line is that it is your life and you have already decided you are nbot his diaper nurse. Set your course and follow it, it is your life and your decision.
In the event you decide to remain in the home Social Security will provide some degree of in home care and he can be catherized. I guess a serious consideration in your decision is how much community property you have accumulated together. If you are living in an apartment with virtually nothing in the bank then there is no reason not to proceed to an immediate divorce.

‚ô•Live, Laugh, Love‚ô•
I hope you're joking. Then again, I don't hope your joking.
Cancer is not something you make jokes about, it's a very serious desease claiming thousands of lives, including small children.
You don't joke about **** like that.

lol. kill yourself.

Like many others have said... 1) I hope you are kidding 2) of course you stay with him. HE HAS CANCER for 1! Not to mention you made a vow, UNDER GOD to love, cherish him, through SICKNESS and health. Maybe if you weren't so selfish you would realize that he needs you. Like another person has said, if you can't deal with it, hire someone that can. Marriage is not all fun and roses, and cancer-free. You have the reponsibility to be there for your husband and make his remaining days full of love, as that is what your marriage SHOULD be based on.... not your conveniences.

Sorry if that's harsh, but that is how you sound with this "question"

This isn't a serious question, is it?
If not, you should be the one suffering from cancer, not him. *****.

this is a joke right????

Ivanna C
whats wrong with you? isnt the point of marriage to stick with that person no matter what? what if you were in his position and he did that to you?
either grow up or go spend the rest of your life lonely

The Mighty Boosh
If you are ready to leave him because he has a terrible disease, then you never truly loved him. You need to make sure you love someone before you marry them. Does the phrase "in SICKNESS and in health" ring a bell?

i say you are a major b*tch if you do that. You married him. You promised to be with him through think or thin. You're obviously a horrible person

Marco's girl
I refuse to answer a question that cannot be taken seriously.

I really hope you're a troll.
Why did you marry him? Because you loved him? For the money? Because you were pregnant/drunk/on drugs?

Stay with him, and actually try to help him and make the last few months of his life happy. Hire a nurse if you just can't deal with all of the needs he has.

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